How to Network on LinkedIn: 10 Practical Steps (With Message Examples)
Samuel Rondot
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- Step 1: Fix what people check before accepting
- Step 2: Decide who you want to meet, and why
- Step 3: Start with your warm network
- Step 4: Send connection requests that get accepted
- Step 5: Follow people before you connect with them
- Step 6: Comment before you message
- Step 7: Post something useful, regularly
- Step 8: Use groups and events to reach beyond your network
- Step 9: Send a useful first message after they accept
- Step 10: Follow up once, then keep the relationship alive
- LinkedIn networking mistakes to avoid
- When networking turns into prospecting
- FAQ
To network on LinkedIn, make your profile worth accepting, connect with people for a specific reason, and build familiarity in public (comments, posts) before you ask anyone for anything in private. Start with people who already know you, then widen to second-degree contacts, alumni and people in your field. Keep every ask small and specific, and follow up once.
A few numbers frame the game. LinkedIn has more than 1.3 billion members (LinkedIn). On a free account, you can add a personal note to only three connection requests per month, up to 200 characters each (LinkedIn Help). You can have up to 30,000 connections, while followers are unlimited (LinkedIn Help). And LinkedIn restricts members whose invitations are often ignored, left pending or marked as spam (LinkedIn Help). Networking well on LinkedIn means fewer, better-targeted requests.
Step 1: Fix what people check before accepting
When your invitation arrives, people glance at your photo, your headline, your current role, your mutual connections and sometimes your recent activity. Make those five seconds count:
- Photo: recent, your face clearly visible, no group shot.
- Headline: what you do and for whom, not just your job title. "Account Executive at Acme" says less than "Account Executive at Acme · helping logistics teams cut delivery costs". Our free LinkedIn headline generator gives you options to start from.
- About: three to five short lines on what you work on, what you're interested in and what people can contact you about.
- Experience: results rather than duties, in a few bullet points per role.
- Activity: a handful of comments or posts from the last few weeks shows there's a real, active person behind the profile.
You can also choose whether Connect or Follow is the main button on your profile, in your visibility settings. If you mostly want an audience for your posts, Follow makes sense; if you're building relationships, keep Connect.
Step 2: Decide who you want to meet, and why
"Growing my network" isn't a goal. Write down two or three groups and the reason for each:
- Peers in your role at other companies, to compare notes and spot opportunities.
- People at 10–20 target companies, if you're job hunting or selling.
- People one or two steps ahead of you, whose path you'd like to understand.
The reason decides what you write in your note, who you comment on and what you eventually ask for.
Step 3: Start with your warm network
The easiest invitations to get accepted go to people who already know you: current and former colleagues, classmates, clients, people you met at events. Connect with all of them. Their connections become your second-degree network, the people you can be introduced to (if the degrees are unclear, see what 1st, 2nd and 3rd mean on LinkedIn).
Then use your school: open its LinkedIn Page and click the Alumni tab in the left-side navigation to see where graduates work and what they do (LinkedIn Help). A shared school is one of the simplest reasons to connect with a stranger.
Step 4: Send connection requests that get accepted
To add a note, go to the person's profile, select Connect, click Add a note, write your message and select Send invitation (LinkedIn Help). With only three notes a month on a free account, keep them for the people who don't know you; colleagues and classmates will accept without one.
A good note says who you are, why this person and asks for nothing. Three examples, each under 200 characters:
Hi Claire, I run sales at a 20-person SaaS in Lyon. Your post on discovery calls was spot on, especially the part about silence. Would be glad to connect.
Hi Mark, we both worked at Acme, a few years apart. I'm now in product marketing at Beta and like keeping in touch with ex-Acme people in B2B SaaS.
Hi Sara, I'm a final-year engineering student looking at data roles in energy. Your move from analyst to product is the path I'm curious about. Happy to connect!
Two habits keep your account healthy:
- Withdraw invitations that sit unanswered. Click My Network, open your invitations (Show all, or Manage if you have none pending), select the Sent tab and click Withdraw. You won't be able to invite the same person again for up to three weeks (LinkedIn Help).
- Stay well under the weekly limit. LinkedIn doesn't publish an exact number; here's how many LinkedIn invitations you can send per week based on what users observe.
For more wording ideas by situation, see our LinkedIn connection message templates.
Step 5: Follow people before you connect with them
For people who don't know you, especially senior people and active creators, follow first. Following needs no acceptance and has no cap. You'll see their posts, you can comment, and when you send an invitation a few weeks later, your name is already familiar. The difference between the two is explained in follow vs connect on LinkedIn.
Step 6: Comment before you message
Thoughtful comments are the most underrated networking move on LinkedIn. They're public, they show how you think, and they put your name in front of the author and their audience. They also help your own posts: LinkedIn ranks each member's feed partly on "who you interact with frequently or recently" (LinkedIn Help).
A useful comment adds something: an example from your work, a number, a respectful disagreement or a precise question. Two to four sentences. "Great post!" adds nothing.
Step 7: Post something useful, regularly
You don't need to become a creator. One or two posts a week about what you're learning in your job is enough to stay visible to the people you've connected with. Short and specific beats long and generic: a lesson, a mistake, a before-and-after, a checklist. Post midweek during working hours in your audience's time zone, when most of the latest studies see the highest engagement.
Step 8: Use groups and events to reach beyond your network
LinkedIn groups still work in active niches. Join a few where your target people actually post, contribute before you promote anything, and you can often message fellow members without being connected, within the limits LinkedIn sets on messages to non-connections (LinkedIn Help).
Events, online or in person, give you the best reason to connect: you were in the same room. Send your invitations within 48 hours and mention the event in your note.
Step 9: Send a useful first message after they accept
Don't pitch in the first message. Thank them, add something useful, and make any ask small and easy to answer. Three examples:
Thanks for connecting, Claire. I saw you're hiring SDRs in Lyon. We went through the same last year; happy to share the onboarding checklist that worked for us if it helps.
Thanks for accepting, Sara. Would you be open to a 15-minute call in the next two weeks? I have three specific questions about moving from analyst to product, nothing more.
Hi Tom, I noticed you're connected to Julie Martin at Acme. Would you be comfortable introducing me? Here's a two-line summary you can forward: [who you are, why Julie, what you're asking].
Step 10: Follow up once, then keep the relationship alive
If someone doesn't reply, send one short follow-up five to seven days later. If there's still nothing, let it go; people are busy, and pushing harder costs you more than silence.
Relationships are kept alive with small, regular gestures: congratulate people on a new role, send them an article that matches what they're working on, endorse skills you've actually seen, write a recommendation for people you've worked with. Keep a simple tracker (name, how you met, last contact, next step) so you don't lose the thread.
LinkedIn networking mistakes to avoid
| Mistake | Why it hurts | Do this instead |
|---|---|---|
| Pitching in the invitation | People ignore it or mark it as spam, and ignored invitations can get your account restricted | Connect first, sell later, if at all |
| Mass-inviting strangers | Many pending or ignored invitations is one of the reasons LinkedIn restricts accounts | A few targeted invitations a day, with a reason |
| Generic copy-paste messages | They read like a template because they are | One specific detail per person |
| Asking a stranger for a job or referral in the first message | It's a big ask from someone with no reason to trust you | Ask for advice first, a referral later |
| Following up every two days | It turns a warm contact cold | One follow-up, then let it go |
| Automating at high volume | LinkedIn says it may restrict or suspend accounts when it suspects automation tools | Low volumes, a human pace and personalized messages |
When networking turns into prospecting
If the people you want to meet are potential customers, networking and prospecting merge. Sales Navigator helps you find them with advanced filters, InMail lets you message people outside your network on paid plans (see what InMail is and how it works), and members with an Open Profile can be messaged for free.
When you need to do this every week for hundreds of prospects, useArtemis takes over the repetitive part: it exports leads from LinkedIn and Sales Navigator searches, finds their verified emails, and runs sequences mixing profile visits, invitations, messages and emails with AI-personalized notes, safe sending limits and a human-like pace. Replies from LinkedIn and email land in one inbox. Any automation on LinkedIn carries some risk, so keep volumes conservative. See plans and pricing.
FAQ
How do I start networking on LinkedIn?
Update your photo, headline and About section, then connect with everyone you already know: colleagues, former colleagues, classmates and clients. Next, follow and comment on the posts of people you'd like to meet, and send them a connection request with a short, specific note once your name is familiar. Post something useful once or twice a week to stay visible.
How do I approach someone on LinkedIn for networking?
Follow them and comment thoughtfully on a post or two first. Then send a connection request with a note under 200 characters that says who you are and why you're reaching out to them in particular, without asking for anything. Once they accept, send a short message with one small, easy-to-answer ask, such as a 15-minute call or a specific question.
How do I network on LinkedIn with no experience?
Lean on what you have: your school, your projects and your curiosity. Use the Alumni tab on your school's LinkedIn Page to find graduates working where you'd like to work, connect with a note that mentions the shared school, and ask for a short informational call rather than a job. Commenting on posts in your target field also gets you noticed without any work experience.
How many connections can you have on LinkedIn?
Up to 30,000 first-degree connections. Once you reach the cap, Follow becomes the default button on your profile and you can't send or accept new invitations without removing connections. The number of followers is unlimited.
How do I use LinkedIn networking to find a job?
Let recruiters know you're open to work: LinkedIn lets you share it with recruiters only or with all members through the #OpenToWork photo frame (LinkedIn Help). Then connect with people at your target companies, ask them about the team rather than for a job, and message recruiters directly with a short, specific note (see how to message a recruiter on LinkedIn).




